There arer 3 types o cases which one encounters in life.
1) You have complete control---- Studies,Career,What are you going to eat :)
There is a chance of Fate and Luck affecting it, but still you are in control.
2)You dont have Control---- Death, Accidents , Coming into wealth by of an Old Relative ;)
3) uYou hav partial control---- Relationships, love, Team Events.
And-------
You are 100% accountable for 1)
0% for 2)
and 0-100% for 3)which depends on a lot of factors.
To be happy and do the right things in life for the cases---
1)Make all the efforts that are possible according to your capability.Enjoy the Journey and accept the end if you have given your best shot.Else try again.
2)Since you don't have any control,don't worry and stop thinking about what's going to happen ,what could hav happend and what did not.
3)Think ,analyse and then decide if it's in your control or not.Then Make effort or accept the reality and let go off the Past.
August 10, 2008 at 10:13 AM
itni baat sabko samajh ajaye toh life main tension naam ki koicheez hi na rahe [:)]
September 16, 2008 at 5:37 AM
many of the people know these facts of life,some discuss it and some don't ,but only few of them can implement it.
October 27, 2008 at 9:46 AM
Assalaamualaikum bhai,
How are you?
I really liked the neem tree picture. I also read in your profile that you want to be a winner. I want to give you a sure shot formula for success and that lies in our submission to the will of God.
Without writing much, I request you to read "The Truth Beckons" at http://loventruth.blogspot.com/, whenever you get time.
Please do write back and do take care.
Your brother in humanity
Hasan